At some point, you’ve probably received a gift that you either didn’t want or didn’t need. Whether it was a sweater in a color that was completely wrong for your complexion or a painting that clashed with your home décor, deciding what to do with an inappropriate gift is often a concern. For many people, however, the preferred option is to return or exchange a gift that has missed the mark.

Is it wrong to exchange a gift? The answer to this question depends on who you ask. There will always be traditionalists who feel that a gift given as a token of affection or appreciation should be kept, regardless of whether or not the item is needed or wanted by the recipient. However, it’s hard to argue that it would be morally wrong to exchange a dress that’s two sizes too small or return a duplicate copy of a book you already own for the bestseller you’ve been dying to read. Additionally, if the person who gave you the gift has enclosed a gift receipt, it’s safe to say that he or she won’t mind if you exchange a gift for something better suited to your tastes. Of course, if you’re concerned about hurt feelings, you could always ask the person what he or she would prefer that you do with the gift.

If you want to return or exchange a gift, it’s best to contact the store to ask about its policies in advance. Some stores only allow returns or exchanges with a receipt. Others require that all returns and exchanges be made within a specific time period, such as 90 days after the initial purchase. However, you’ll typically have an easier time if you’re hoping to exchange a gift for a similar item or store credit. Getting a cash refund for your gift is often a difficult task.

Since many stores have tightened their policies for customers who want to return or exchange a gift in recent years, the practice of “regifting” is becoming increasingly common. Giving a gift you received to someone who you think would appreciate the item can be a great way to make the most of unwanted or unneeded presents when it’s impossible to exchange a gift. However, it’s important to remember that you should always regift items that are in new condition. It’s also a good idea to rewrap the gift and make sure you don’t accidentally regift to the person who originally gave you the present in question.