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What Should I Give my Wife for Valentine's Day?

Mary McMahon
Mary McMahon
Mary McMahon
Mary McMahon

Valentine's Day gifts are a wonderful way to show appreciation for your wife while the world at large is also celebrating love and commitment. Whether your first Valentine's Day together or your fiftieth, you can find something wonderful to surprise and delight your wife while also enriching your relationship. Gifts for your wife could include conventional Valentine's Day presents like flowers, candy, and lingerie, or you could explore nontraditional options that celebrate the unique relationship you have together.

If you would like to pursue the traditional route, you can still think outside the box a little. Flowers, for example, don't just mean roses. You could select a bouquet of your wife's favorite flowers, or give her a lei or head garland. You could also present her with living plants, either potted to be enjoyed indoors or planted in your garden. Flowering trees and vines are a wonderful way to enhance the beauty of the world around you while celebrating your love. You might consider giving your wife potted bulbs for Valentine's Day which will look beautiful and can be planted outdoors to bloom again and again.

A massage makes a nice gift.
A massage makes a nice gift.

In the realm of candy, the possibilities are limited only by your imagination. Chocolates come in a myriad of flavors, shapes, and colors, along with beautiful packaging. You could also explore other candy options like taffy or licorice. If your wife has a favorite candy flavor, you may be able to custom order it in a unique shape or interesting box. You might also celebrate your relationship with other gifts of food and drink, such as a dinner for two, or a subscription to a wine club.

A Valentine's Day gift might include a romantic dinner.
A Valentine's Day gift might include a romantic dinner.

Especially if you have been married for a long time, you might want to take Valentine's Day as an opportunity to renew your relationship by escaping to a different locale. If you have children, find someone to care for them while you spend a few nights in a bed and breakfast. If you are able, take a longer trip to a location neither of you has visited before. Many tropical destinations provide Valentine's Day packages which emphasize the romance of exotic places. You could also spend a weekend snugly bundled in a ski chalet, or take a safari to Africa for a week; explore the world together.

A gift certificate for a spa manicure is a nice Valentine's Day gift.
A gift certificate for a spa manicure is a nice Valentine's Day gift.

You might also use Valentine's Day to fulfill a promise. Perhaps you have been meaning to redo the floors in the kitchen, paint the guest room, or replace the ugly couch in the living room. Celebrate your relationship by making a lasting change to the environment you live in and showing your commitment to the space and love that you share. It's also a good time to try out the activity you keep putting off.

Chocolates make an excellent Valentine's Day gift.
Chocolates make an excellent Valentine's Day gift.

Most importantly, Valentine's Day is a time to celebrate your love. The best gifts are presents which include the both of you, such as romantic dinners, massages for two, an evening of horseback riding on the beach, or a quick escape from the world around you. Your wife will appreciate the mutual enjoyment of your love much more than static gifts.

Mary McMahon
Mary McMahon

Ever since she began contributing to the site several years ago, Mary has embraced the exciting challenge of being a WiseGEEK researcher and writer. Mary has a liberal arts degree from Goddard College and spends her free time reading, cooking, and exploring the great outdoors.

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Mary McMahon
Mary McMahon

Ever since she began contributing to the site several years ago, Mary has embraced the exciting challenge of being a WiseGEEK researcher and writer. Mary has a liberal arts degree from Goddard College and spends her free time reading, cooking, and exploring the great outdoors.

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Discussion Comments

anon994498

My boyfriend got me same thing he got his kids: a stuffed animal. The worst part is he got his ex wife a gift also and a card. I got no card and she didn't get a stuffed animal. He says it was from his kids, but it's the point of buying hers and my gift at same time. And buying me same thing he bought his kids, Am I wrong to be angry?

anon152692

Stay away from a vacuum cleaner. she was really pissed. I mean for weeks.

anon149051

Give her a Valentines day Scentsy warmer.

Pick her out a few scents too.

anon64112

you must be a guy. only a guy can gift "redoing kitchen floor" on Valentine's Day!

bigmetal

diamonds, jewelry, diamonds! well, if you're practical like me, you might feel guilty about an expensive gift, but most every woman loves sparkly stuff!

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    • A massage makes a nice gift.
      By: apops
      A massage makes a nice gift.
    • A Valentine's Day gift might include a romantic dinner.
      By: apops
      A Valentine's Day gift might include a romantic dinner.
    • A gift certificate for a spa manicure is a nice Valentine's Day gift.
      By: frankdaniels
      A gift certificate for a spa manicure is a nice Valentine's Day gift.
    • Chocolates make an excellent Valentine's Day gift.
      By: Nenov Brothers
      Chocolates make an excellent Valentine's Day gift.
    • Jewelry, made from beautiful gemstones, is a common Valentine's Day gift.
      By: Galyna Andrushko
      Jewelry, made from beautiful gemstones, is a common Valentine's Day gift.
    • Perfume is an appropriate Valentine's Day gift.
      By: raven
      Perfume is an appropriate Valentine's Day gift.
    • A bottle of her favorite wine is a good Valentine's Day gift for a wife.
      By: harencibia
      A bottle of her favorite wine is a good Valentine's Day gift for a wife.
    • Orchestrating a romantic night with a fireplace and glass of wine can be a nice Valentine's Day gift.
      By: nyul
      Orchestrating a romantic night with a fireplace and glass of wine can be a nice Valentine's Day gift.
    • Lingerie is a popular gift item given to wives on Valentine's day.
      By: Ruslan Kudrin
      Lingerie is a popular gift item given to wives on Valentine's day.
    • Red roses are one of the most popular Valentine's Day gifts.
      By: Natalia Klenova
      Red roses are one of the most popular Valentine's Day gifts.
    • Horseback riding lessons may be a thoughtful Valentine's Day gift.
      By: yanlev
      Horseback riding lessons may be a thoughtful Valentine's Day gift.