My husband's son has paranoid psych0phrenia. He has been hospitalized several times. He just got out a few months ago and is headed there again. He will not take his medicine. He calls us at all times of the night ordering us to do things for him. He is totally out of touch with reality.
We are at our wits' end with him and really don't know what to do. We have been helping him financially and my husband told him that we are cutting off all help until he helps himself and starts to do what the doctor tells him to do. We are worried about him and worried that he might harm himself.
Does anyone have any suggestions for us? He is rude to us and just wants us to jump when he calls or needs anything. We are older, in our retirement years, and would like some help. I am afraid when we get older that he might even try to hit us to get his way.