Noise anxiety is a condition which is characterized by an extreme sensitivity to noise. Someone with noise anxiety suffers a variety of stress and anxiety related emotions when he or she is exposed to certain types of noises; these emotions can range from a general sense of uneasiness to aggression. Living with noise anxiety can be extremely frustrating, and the condition can be difficult to treat; typically the assistance of a skilled therapist is required.
Some people are more at risk for noise anxiety than others. People suffering from depression or anxiety are more likely to develop noise anxiety, as are women and introverts. The condition can emerge at any time, often in response to an increase of stress. The noise induced anxiety can, in turn, heighten the sense of stress and unease, thereby making the sufferer even more anxious, depressed, or upset. This can contribute to a generally distressed mental state which can be problematic for the sufferer.
A wide variety of noises can contribute to noise anxiety, and the triggers seem to be unique to the individual. As a general rule, the noises are repetitive or chronic, and the patient may feel a lack of control over them. Some commonly cited sources of noise anxiety include: chewing, voices, picking at fingernails, neighborhood animal sounds, engines, televisions and radios, pet grooming, and appliances, among many others, and the responses to such noises may range from flying into a rage to withdrawing into a state of depression.
For someone with noise anxiety, sounds often seem amplified, and there may be a sense that sounds are being created deliberately with the intent of annoying or upsetting the sufferer. For example, someone who is sensitive to the sound of pet grooming may grow angry at cats and dogs who settle down to groom nearby, even though the animals may actually be demonstrating trust or affection by grooming in the vicinity.
Wearing earplugs and noise canceling headphones can help to dampen the sounds which cause distress, and headphones can also be used to listen to soothing or calming noises which the sufferer does have control over. However, these measures should not be used alone; noise anxiety can be very unpleasant for those who suffer from it and people around them when left untreated, and it is a good idea to seek therapy to help overcome the problem. Even with therapy, patients may not be completely cured, but they can learn to cope with noise anxiety and to reduce the severity of the effects.
I am so glad I read this! I have been complaining to my supervisor for quite awhile as I work in a cubicle workplace.
I tend to make more mistakes, get really angry and seethe inside my cubicle, over people holding random lengthy conversations. People who let their "missed call" on their cell phone beep in the cube for hours while they are away from the cubicle. People who sniffle all day or snort up their snot like disgusting pigs!
When I brought this to my manager's attention she said she had never heard of such a thing as being sensitive to noise like that and I am making excuses. Thank You!
- anon53465
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I can't believe what I'm reading- what a relief to see that I'm not alone. I get very angry when I hear people chew, sniff, sneeze loud, clear their throats -- the list goes on. It's really hard in a relationship. I'm on prozac for anxiety but it doesn't fix this problem. Any other ideas out there?
- anon51527
15
I have a problem with people playing radios at work. I can't tolerate earplugs. I don't like music while I'm working - otherwise it's fine. Does anyone know how to get over this?
- anon50772
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My anxiety toward noises occurs mainly when I am at home in my own private "sanctuary". At least I'd like to someday have a home that I can call a true sanctuary. A home free from neighbor's noise making and thumping car stereos. I currently live in a condo that connects to my neighbor's unit on one wall. I have moved out of my master bedroom and into the smaller one down the hall because my neighbor's kitchen is located on the other side of the master bedroom's wall. I've moved to the other bedroom because my neighbors love to drag their heavy (I'm guessing) dining room chairs across their tile floor several times a day, even early in the morning (5:30 a.m.). They are such a nice couple and are otherwise pretty quiet. So rather than confront them about it, I've altered my way of living. Other than retrieving clothing from the closet in that room, I try to stay away as much as possible because I know that the noise will infuriate me. I even keep the room's main door closed whenever possible. Like some of you, I also do fly into a rage if the offensive noise persists. I know it's not a normal response, and I also know that I should see a therapist about it, but financially I'm not in a position to do so at this point. I just want to be normal. This disorder colors my entire life gray. I long for the day when I can live in the country miles away from any neighbor.
- anon50757
13
I have been sensitive to a variety of noises (e.g. people chewing, sirens, etc.) for many many years, but air traffic above my house such as police helicopters and military jet noise is by far my biggest problem. Anyone else suffer from this as their primary noise issue? I moved from one area of town to another recently, primarily to get away from the noise, but I now experience chronic noise from military fighter jets instead of police helicopter patrolling (this is not occasional noise, but daily/nightly habitual noise). I am extremely sensitive to it. Obviously people live in these places and cope somehow, but the anxiety it creates for me is all consuming. I have lived in places earlier in my life where this was not an issue, so I know I'm not making it up. It ruins what is otherwise a pretty good life for me. I have a great/stable job, kids are content, and otherwise don't want to leave, but I don't know what else to do at this point. I can't afford to keep moving, and I have other people to consider besides myself. Wish there were a reasonable solution. I'm truly concerned that I might wind up in an institution if I don't find a happy medium. Thoughts?
- anon49802
12
I've never had this problem before! and now i wake up all the time when someone is snoring, and i can't concentrate or read in any of my subjects when someone is talking, it interrupts my train of thought. People would just say like "you have to learn to tolerate it" which is *so* frustrating because they don't understand i can't!
- anon49289
11
I can't take the sounds of people talking or making any type of noise like humming, singing or whistling especially. I feel insane all the time because I actually feel a rage come over me when people are talking around me. I was shocked to google sensitivity to noise and find this. I am going to speak to my doctor about it now that I know it's not just me!
- anon48444
10
"Obnoxious jerk disorder". It causes extreme insensitivity to sounds, as well as to the well-being of people around them. Certain groups are more at risk: men, extroverts, and persons who have gone numb as a result of many years of study in authoritarian medical schools.
Recommended treatment is medication as well as sensitivity-training type therapies. Especially recommended are therapies which increase empathy.
- anon47339
9
Nice try, psychiatrists. "Women and introverts" suffering from a terrible medical affliction that makes them unable to tolerate other people's oh-so-normal sounds. Take a pill, get some therapy. No. Obnoxious extroverts, aggressive men, rude and disrespectful neighbors need to be quiet!
Medicalization of social distress does not serve anyone but the hyper-normal.
- anon47338
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I work in a hospital, and the noises from equipment, alarms, and people drive me insane!
- anon44110
7
to anon41690, I would seek professional help if you have not done so already. My wife deals with this (along with other forms of anxiety) and I know how she can get because of it. The biggest injustice you can do to yourself is to tell yourself you don't have a problem and that you don't need help. I am not saying that this is you, but it is my wife, and it makes both of us miserable. She used to be on Lexapro and Ativan, but is pregnant now and has stopped all of her meds, and the world can tell the difference. Even her coworkers have dropped hints to her, but she just doesn't get it - she blames others or says "she is doing pretty well being off of the medicine". I would disagree. Bottom line, if it is hampering your day to day activities, or if you are making other people uncomfortable or being short with others because of your anxiety - seek help. There is nothing to be ashamed of in seeking help - and it may improve your quality of life (and others around you).
- anon43864
6
I have always had a problem with noise anxiety.
The sound of people eating food, any especially chips. People that sniffle, my dad sucks up his snot all the time and it gives me rage and I tell him to stop making the sound and my mom says, "just get over it, people make sounds," but i can't! I can't concentrate at school especially while taking a test because so many people chew gum and cough and sniffle. I try so hard but i cannot tune it out. It literally hurts my ears so much I cry. Its only gotten more severe over the years. I refuse to have friends that make the noises that i don't like and if someone does make a noise, i will point it out and people do get upset with me. I don't know what is wrong with me though. What am I supposed to do? I was living away from home in the dorms at university but i'm back home going to community college and because of the sounds. my anxiety is extremely bad now and i don't know what to do. Any advice, please?
- anon41690
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I'm also sensitive to noise, doors slamming close, loud car engines, tapping. I've tried taking deep breathes whenever I feel anxious and think of something else which sometimes works.
- anon37089
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To anon33090.
My noise anxiety is exactly what you describe. Loud chewing, popping gum, my mom's "s" sound, heavy breathing. Same thing with me. It started when I was in grammar school. Can't just tune these sounds out. What do you do about it?
- anon33285
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I have awful noise anxiety, it's been affecting me since I was a little kid. I can't stand the sound of loud chewing, sniffing, loud talking, clicking of a video game controller, mouse clicking, keyboard typing, nail clipping, and my mom's coughing. It seems a new annoying noise arises every year.
- anon33090
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I too have this condition, when trucks or airplanes pass my house, I have to run outside and look at them so stop myself having a heart attack. Nat, 22, Aust.
- anon26854
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I have noticed for a while that I am sensitive to noise , makes me jumpy even not so loud noises. I have experienced hyperventilating, angry, nervous, shaking, feeling that I need to go to the doctor, chest pains ect. Is all this related to anxiety ? I feel I am totally nuts sometimes. I can't concentrate.