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I do the same. I pick my scabs and after must eat them. I know this is some weirdo crap but it just feels so good and I don't feel I can stop. I have been doing it since I was six. I am now 23 and it is becoming progressively worse. I totally agree with the trance. It's like when I pick I am totally in a world fixated on that particular scab and just in the moment. I can find anything on the net that will help me. I thought self help info for problems like this would be free? I actually wish this was never an issue but now I am starting to see the payment for this problem in a big way.
- anon49892
11
I have the same thing. I will pick at anything that is rough or abnormal. Dead skin, scabs, etc. Don't know why. I empathize with the piece about the "trance state." When I'm picking, I'll sit there, unable to give up until the object of my attention is removed.
- anon48368
10
i've been picking at my gums non-stop! what can i do to either stop picking or begin healing my gums? i don't have any noticeable damage. this has just been a recent issue and i'm 28. my smile is amazing. i'd hate to have to hide it due to gum receding or whatever comes due to gum picking/gouging. i heard it may be related to a sinus issue as well! please help!
- anon47908
9
I remember distinctly being eight years old when I started picking at my skin. It started with just having an utter disgust for the look and feeling of scabs, and so I'd pull them off. I'm 26 now and find myself still doing it constantly-- mostly in places that are usually covered, but it often prevents me from wanting to wear certain clothing because it will show the spots. It's an everyday habit, but I find myself less in control of it when I am in an unstable emotional state. I grew up with a rageaholic father and now face dealing with similar characteristics in myself and my husband (who, by the way, is the main person I am embarrassed to allow to see my spots). My parents even took me to a dermatologist when I was a kid and made me do these expensive treatments on my arms for a while. It may have helped the skin, but it didn't help the habit.
- anon44703
8
Everyone seem to me picking at their scalps? I pick at the tips of my fingers. On the top. Not at the nail. All around and I've done it since before I can remember. I just can't stop! But it doesn't hurt. I guess I've done it so much it becomes numb.
- anon41447
7
though my skin picking is not that severe, i have been picking scabs and my scalp since i was little. i would take a pen and dig into my head until it caused scabs that i could pick. things aren't as bad now that im 16 but its still weird. my mother asks me why my mosquito bites last so long, and its because i pick them, so they never have any time to heal. how do you cure this???
- anon37802
6
ive known for a very long time ive had a "picking" problem. only more recently when i was in a long term relationship did it truly become an issue as i began to pick at my boyfriends scabs and pimples(etc). im a manic depressive with obsessive compulsive tendency. when i was younger i would pick scabs but now i pick at anything possible including my scalp legs arms or anywhere something may "need" picked, even now i cant help but reach for a scab on my head.. my problem seems to be getting worse.i think i cant stop because of my past cutting, i was told im addicted to the pain.. could the urge to cut, and fighting it, be causing my intense compultion to pick?
- anon37121
5
My mother came to me yesterday and told me that she thinks I have this disorder. I laughed at her, thinking she was just over-reacting. However, I just read this article and I realize I have every symptom. I pick at zits and things on my arms, face and chest. I also think I may have BDD and I used to pick at my scalp when I was younger. I think I have some anger management and depression issues, but I don't want to tell my mom. I'm a teenager and my scabs are embarrassing enough. I feel that I don't need outside help. What should I do?
- anon31362
4
I have suffered from skin-picking since I was a small child. The area that suffers the most is the inside of my mouth and my lips. I have a constant urge to bite or be chewing. This becomes confusing when I have to distinguish hunger from urge to bit something. I remember as a teenager being embarrassed to kiss members of the opposite sex because my lips were cracked all the time and I could not stop biting. I have tried to stop, but it makes me feel like I am going to go crazy, it feels so unnatural not to be biting. I don't ever see this going away, and it makes me come off as a constantly nervous and insecure person. I refuse to take anti-depressants and wonder what else could help me. When I was a child, I had scars all over the joints in my hands, and they were always puffy and sore. I finally got over that but have been unable to beat the disorder in full. My gums are destroyed.
- anon25500
3
ive had onycophagia for as long as i can remember. i started picking on my skin a bit after i hit puberty. its taken 6 years for my condition to get noticeable. my skin used to be flawless, i just always thought if i could just get rid of that one occasional pimple i could learn to love my appearance better. iv learned after 6 years, theyre all just excuses. i want out.
- anon23004
2
I, too, from childhood to present, suffer from the urge of scalp-picking, I'm to the point that I worry that I will get bald spots later on?? I am considered very attractive, but I am ashamed that I do this, I also pick at the skin on my fingers. My father says that my estranged biological mother had the same thing. I wonder if this is hereditary or a learned habit??
- anon21197
1
so i have been picking at my scalp for a while since i was maybe 11 or 12... and i always thought it was a parasite problem but when i bought all the lice combs and shampoo and stuff i still didn't stop and now i have noticed that it never itches i just pick i would also pick at the dry skin on my arms and i when i get zits its rare i pick at them as well but mostly my scalp...well my real question is would your environment have something to do with it? cause i was raised by methamphetamine users and manufactures... my mother is the one that had the "meth bug" issue and she'd would spend hours picking at her forehead with razors. she'd even go to the extreme of picking at us... do you think it's possible that watching her doing that at my young age could have caused the issue i am dealing with now. childhood habits?
- anon19355