After using cocoa butter lotion and soap I found it in valuable for softening my skin. As my partner and I are keen hikers I often suffered from sun and wind exposure, making it hard to feel very feminine.
I tried to convert my guy to these products but he complained that they had a 'girly scent', which set me off on a determined search for the best cocoa butter products with little or no smell to them.
Eventually I found something targeting outdoor type people, and it is completely unscented, yet still has all the benefits he wanted. Now I just steal his when we spend a night away together!