What is Avoidance Disorder?

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Avoidance disorder, more properly known as avoidant personality disorder (APD) or anxious personality disorder, is a psychological condition characterized by extreme social inhibition and shyness. People who suffer from this condition usually feel very uncomfortable in public situations, and they tend to avoid social interaction and contact with other people. Avoidance disorder is not the same thing as antisocial personality disorder, in which people flaunt social rules and norms.

A number of criteria can be used to identify avoidance disorder. The first is the tendency to avoid social interaction, often with an awareness that certain things are being sacrificed by avoiding contact with other people. Patients also tend to feel inadequate or worthless, and they are reluctant to make friends or grow close to people because they are afraid of experiencing rejection. Social inhibition is a hallmark of avoidance disorder, as is extreme sensitivity about the thoughts and actions of other people.

When someone with avoidance disorder does interact with people socially, he or she may seem very shy and withdrawn. The patient often becomes obsessed with evaluating his or her own behavior, to the point that the patient rarely speaks or interacts with others out of fear of being judged unworthy. Patients also tend to over-analyze the actions of others, inflating harmless comments into serious assaults on character or failing to interpret a statement correctly. Fears about being perceived as socially awkward can unfortunately lead the patient to behave in a socially awkward or inept way.

Individuals with avoidance disorder usually start to experience symptoms as young adults. Sometimes the condition emerges in response to being isolated or alienated by peers, and in other cases it arises spontaneously. In both instances, the patient may identify as a loner, expressing feelings of alienation and discontent. Avoidance disorder often leads people to live alone, and it may be combined with things like anxiety disorders or obsessive compulsive disorder.

There are a number of treatment approaches to avoidance disorder which can be explored with a psychologist, psychiatrist, or other mental health professional. Extensive individual therapy sessions can be combined with group therapy to explore the underlying cause of the disorder and ways in which social anxiety and avoidance might be addressed. Some patients also benefit from the use of drug therapy in combination with other forms of therapy. Sometimes, patients may need to see several therapists before finding an individual and a treatment approach which works.

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oh man, this is me, to a 'T'. I have not always been this way. I became more and more isolated after my significant other, who I had been with quite a long time and who I nad really trusted, left me suddenly and completely for another woman who had been a friend to the two of us. She manipulated my trust to get at him, and once she got what she wanted, dropped all pretense of ever having cared about me. This all happened in 2007 and I think I ought to be "over it" now, and want to have new partners and friends. But social activities are so draining to me, they literally become exhausting as I try so hard to stop being so apprehensive. I have been non-employed for 21 years and cannot afford to even go to community college, so I am really hung up on how worthless people will think I am if they meet me. Everyone wants to know what your occupation is, and if you say "I am on SSI" the person who asked is already walking in the 'away' direction. I cannot get hired for a job having no people skills and even if I did, then the SSI will be cut, I will lose my apartment and be even more reviled as a street person. There seems no way out of this, it's like a moebius-strip divide-by-zero loop of epic fail. My dread of failing makes me avoid attempting to win, thus absolutely ensuring 100 percent failure. The avoidance fools my mind by causing there to be no evidence that I am no good at the socializing, romantic interactions, art, writing and such that I used to enjoy so much. P.S.: I think maybe I am going to try to start a forum for some of the folks who post on wiseGEEK about various issues related to self improvement, mental illness, and so forth. This is one of the last few net sites around that allow anonymous posts, but they don't have continuity or connectivity or any way for its users to contact one another. The forum will also be anonymous friendly but attempt to address this.
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