What is Antisocial Behavior?

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Antisocial behavior can be generally characterized as an overall lack of adherence to the social mores and standards that allow members of a society to coexist peaceably. According to some studies, individuals with antisocial behavior disorders are responsible for about half of all crimes committed, though they make up only about five percent of the population. Most of those with antisocial behavior disorders are male. Of the females that account for a smaller portion, most are not physically violent.

Antisocial behavior can start out in childhood, adolescence or adulthood. In children it is referred to as a conduct disorder, in adults as antisocial personality disorder. Conduct disorders developed early in life, prior to puberty, are more likely to continue into adulthood and also more likely to be aggressive. Conversely, a child that develops antisocial behavior at or after puberty has a better chance of the disorder not continuing into adulthood.

Antisocial behavior as seen in children is a growing concern among educators. Escalating violence in schools is an outward manifestation of antisocial behavior. Researchers have linked certain factors to the childhood form, finding it is often passed down within the family, though the genetics of this are not well understood. There also seem to be other common factors. Children with conduct disorders are often victims of abuse or have been exposed to aversive or punitive environments. Parenting is often inconsistent, swinging from excessive leniency to excessive punishment.

Most of society's worst criminals showed clear signs of antisocial behavior as children. Today's parents are called upon to watch for signs so that the condition can be treated. Children or adolescents with conduct disorder will show three or more of the following signs consistently in his or her personality traits:

  • Behaves impulsively, thoughtlessly jeopardizing the safety of himself and others.
  • Is manipulative, lies or cons his way through situations.
  • Will not follow rules, enjoys breaking the law.
  • Borrows money without repaying it.
  • Steals.
  • Is overly aggressive, often picking fights.
  • Is willing to hurt others emotionally or physically without remorse.
  • Is arrogant and overly confident.
  • Likes to set fires.
  • Is cruel to animals.

A person with conduct disorder or antisocial behavior might appear very charming and outgoing at first. However, friendships are hard to maintain as it becomes clear that it is too difficult to be close to this person. What at first seems to be daring and fun activity soon becomes dangerous and thoughtless.

People exhibiting antisocial behavior are extremely selfish and self-centered. Adults that are affected by antisocial behavior that did not have conduct disorder as children might initially get involved with white collar crime or become abusive to a spouse or family member. The nature of the negative behavior can escalate with time. The worst cases of antisocial behavior as seen in adult criminals, such as murderers, can usually be traced back to earlier conduct disorders as children.

Antisocial behavior in adults is not easily treated by psychotherapy or medication, as there is little motivation for adults to change. If you suspect an adult with this disorder it is best to avoid him or her as much as possible to protect yourself and your family. Anyone who believes their child might be exhibiting signs of conduct disorder should seek professional help immediately.

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Posted by: anon16988
i have recently discovered that i myself am one of 'these people' and i hate myself for it. im no psychiatrist but i truly believe that i adopted this behavior disorder from my dad in which im turning out to be a spitting image of. but the truth is even though i know this (or think i do), there doesnt seem to be anything i can do or tell myself that will change the way i am.

i lied to my friends, cheated on my wife and have often done reckless, immoral things that harm me and those around me. the consequence? so far i've lost *all* my close friends, bankrupted myself, am disowned by part of my family and live a very unfulfilling life.

living with this disorder is so hard. i find myself not able to connect with the social norm. i wish i was ignorant of it so that at least i would have some bliss but i am very aware and can't control myself.

reading some of the posts here and i see there r those who live with ppl such a disorder. well if ur married to one of them, leave them for the sake of ur kids. my mom finally made the decision to leave my dad only when me and my siblings were all grown up. she said she didnt want to leave him when we were young because she didnt want us growing up without a father. that was her mistake because my dad refused to work. he'd work a job for weeks to a month and quit. my mom was the bread winner so naturally she left us kids to the care of my dad and *look at what a great job he did* the only good thing that came out of my dads parenting is my older brother who despised my dads ways enough to move out as soon as he was financially able (sometime in high school) and got himself a bachelors degree in business on his own. i wasnt so lucky.

my dad is quite something. arrogant, ignorant, verbally abusive, physically abusive (over the littlest things like eating a meal too slowly - which resulted in my face being pushed down into the soup bowl) and etc! he was or is a problem gambler, lost a ton of money my mom brought home and showed little remorse for his actions.

everything i have just described about my father has been passed down to me, minus the physically abuse and arrogant part but what he has passed down is enough to make me hate life. so why am i here posting this? no idea. i guess this is part of my antisocial way.

Posted by: anon16717
anyone in a relationship with someone who has this disorder, should do whatever they have to to get out. no job skills? go to the library & get books that will update skills, then go to college & take a test to get credit for what u have learned thru life. (testing out). try to find a mentor in your career of choice, try an apprenticeship somewhere. where theres a will, theres a way!!!! the worst thing u can do is take the 'victim' role!!! when u have done all these steps, then get out!!!!! for your own mental health & safety!!!!
Posted by: anon16338
I just recently found that a new acquaintance had this same behavior. I have since ended the relationship. He has a daughter that he is completely smothering. She has no outside interests other than those he is interested in. He too punished her severely for minute issues. I feel really bad for her. He was often snide when faced with any kind of adverse situation. At first I dismissed it as a defense mechanism. But soon realized that he was a sociopath! I am so glad to be away from him. I was constantly irritable and didnt realize it was him that was getting on my nerves!
Posted by: purpletaz
I have just recently left a very toxic marriage to a man who refuses to work, parent his child or to treat me with at least a modicum of respect. He refused to show up in court (several times) for the divorce hearing, so I have alimony ordered. He cleaned out my bank account, sold my furniture which was in storage, and everything else he could sell. He refused to pay alimony or meet any of the terms of the divorce. He went to jail for three months, agreed to financial terms when released, but has yet to honor any of those obligation, including any alimony. If I did not hand over my hard earned money, he stole my checks and forged my name to cash them-or ran up charges on my credit card. The authorities say he had this right, even though he never earned a dime. He tells everyone that I am "an evil woman" and always portrays himself as the victim. While this was going on, he has renewed a relationship with an old high school girlfriend. She did not know about me and I did not know of her. He has conned her, too, financially and emotionally. Do I count my blessings and forget the alimony or keep on trying? My sense of caring is also telling me that I should at least do something to put an end to his victimizing this latest woman, before she too ends up broke, homeless, and unemployed as he did me.
Posted by: anon9911
Take your kids and get out. don't you see that you have become the "toy"...or the "tool".....better yet, you are a total victim. this was the plan all along. His plan has worked. After all, that's what "these people" need, a victim. for you to actually say 'I'm stuck"....says it all. Money, things, accounts....whatever, all these things are material. people living under bridges are probably more happy than you, and are probably more safe than your kids are. get out before he realizes a more harmful plan.
Posted by: oldfriend
Help

My husband of 17 years has become more and more anti-social. He is aggressive, verbally abusive, avoids eye-contact, has no hobbies outside the house, prone to road rage every time he gets in the car, punishes the kids for small things (ex: 2 weeks grounding for dropping a plastic spoon), dislikes everyone, etc. You get the picture.

The fact is that I love him and think he needs help. He would be unwilling to admit there is a problem and would be unwilling, I think, to take medication.

The kids are intimated, and I suppose, after 17 years, so am I.

Lots of people would say: "Why don't you just leave?" Here's the thing: We've moved around so much in 17 years that my vocational skills are outdated. I do not have a college degree. I am not authorized access to the bank accounts i.e., not even a debit card. We live thousands of miles from any family. In effect, I'm stuck.

What to do. What to do.


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