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What is a Retrosexual?

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The term “retrosexual” was first used to describe a particular sort of man in 2003 by Mark Simpson. Many traits characterize a retrosexual, but the most distinctive is their classically masculine identity. Retrosexuals spend minimal time on their personal appearance, for example, and they often pursue classically masculine activities like hunting and rough field sports. Some people simply call retrosexuals “manly men,” in a reference to their very masculine demeanor.

The term is closely related to “metrosexual,” a sort of man who is essentially the opposite of a retrosexual. Metrosexual men spend a great deal of time, energy, and money on personal appearance, and they pride themselves on dressing well. They often use a wide variety of cosmetic products for skin, hair, and nails, and then tend to have a more feminine presentation. The “metrosexual” actually came first; this particular species of man was described in an article in 2002, also by Mark Simpson.

Individual retrosexuals have a wide range of personal beliefs and attitudes. Some people believe that the reluctance to follow fashion fads is accompanied with a lack of interest in general social trends, suggesting that retrosexuals have antiquated attitudes about women, people of different sexual orientations, and minorities. This is not, in fact, the case. A retrosexual can be a poet just as easily as he can be a logger, and in both instances he may not be overly concerned with skin color, sexual orientation, or gender.

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If retrosexual men could be said to have a “look,” the look is generally rugged. Jeans, flannel shirts, and other comfortable garments are common inclusions in the retrosexual wardrobe, with a focus on utility rather than style. Retrosexuality is more about attitude than style, as many of these men believe that actions and beliefs speak louder than clothing. A certain sense of honor and self reliance is associated with retrosexual men, some of whom place a heavy emphasis on being able to hunt, garden, fix things around the house, and tinker with machinery.

Unlike the metrosexual look, which involves deliberate cultivation of a desired style, retrosexuals are marked by a total lack of effort. Some people might argue that retrosexuals are born, rather than made, as the live and let live attitude and other beliefs of a retrosexual are difficult things to acquire.

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anon314790
Post 6

I am a retrosexual. I like the 1940s-1950s trench coat and fedora look. I am a man and see nothing wrong with wearing clothes that show the world what I am. I believe in the right to keep and bear arms, working out, taking responsibility for my actions, and the old philosophy that if you want something you have to work for it.

malik23
Post 5

@S.E.Smith: What do you mean when you say:

"As the live and let live attitude and other beliefs of a retrosexual are difficult things to acquire?"

malik23
Post 4

@S.E.Smith: Did you have to use the word species? It sounds like you are talking about an animal? Humans are higher than animals. It would sound better if you used something else.

Illych
Post 3

I think both "retrosexual" and "metrosexual" are ridiculous terms and I hate to seem used. The whole idea of them is that people are basically caricatures and we should completely disregard any individuality people might have based on the clothes they wear or whether they like hunting. It makes me roll my eyes.

redstaR
Post 2

I'd never heard of this term until now. I must be somewhere in between; if being a retrosexual includes, I guess you could say "old fashioned" type gentlemanly behavior then that's me, but at the same time I don't see how it's "manly" not to care about how you dress. You don’t need to buy new clothes all of the time or keep up to date with all the current trends, just dress in a simple well-defined manner and people will respect you for it.

There's an old joke somebody told me once: a guy looks at a well dressed person across the street and remarks to his friend next to him "What do you call a guy who pays that much attention to the way he dresses?" His friend is quick with a response: "An adult."

That's always how I've thought of it anyway.

anon35968
Post 1

If you are dating a man and you think he may be a woman, what are the signs and what to look for or things he says. please help me answer these questions

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