What is a Restraining Order?

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A restraining order is a court order that instructs a person to cease and avoid certain behavior. Though restraining orders are sometimes granted for business or financial purposes, they are best known for their use in domestic abuse situations. For example, a person may obtain a restraining order against his or her spouse in an effort to put an end to domestic violence. A restraining order may be granted not only to prevent physical or sexual abuse, but also to prevent verbal abuse, stalking, and other threatening behaviors.

In a domestic abuse situation, a restraining order may forbid the defendant or alleged perpetrator from being within a certain physical distance of the plaintiff or alleged victim. It may also prohibit phone calls, written communication, and other types of contact. In the event that the defendant violates the restraining order by contacting, harassing, or appearing within a certain distance of the victim, he or she could face imprisonment and/or fines.

When a restraining order is requested by a victim of abuse, threats, or stalking, it may be granted on a temporary basis without a hearing or notice to the defendant. Granting a temporary restraining order without a preceding hearing is not intended to strip the defendant of rights. Instead, it is granted to provide immediate protection to the alleged victim, allowing him or her to feel safe until both parties can appear in court.

Typically, a court hearing is held within a reasonable period of time following the granting of a temporary restraining order. This hearing provides a chance for both the plaintiff and the defendant to be heard. Both sides are allowed to testify and to produce evidence concerning the reason for the restraining order. A judge will then decide whether or not to grant a permanent restraining order. In some jurisdictions, the defendant must request a hearing; in others, a hearing date is set automatically.

A permanent restraining order is typically not meant to last a lifetime. In many cases, a permanent restraining order is granted with a specified time limit. For example, a victim of domestic violence may be able to obtain a restraining order for a two-year period. The time period for a permanent restraining order can be extended upon the application of the victim and at a judge’s discretion.

It is possible for both parties in a dispute to obtain restraining orders against each other. For example, if a husband and wife have physically abused each other, it is possible for the spouses to obtain reciprocating restraining orders. Laws concerning restraining orders vary by state.

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What is the distance regulation for a temporary restraining order and so? Does it differ from situation to situation? (i.e. 50 feet, 75 yards, 1 mile)
- anon50743
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My grandson is being picked up by his father at my home. He brings someone with him at each visit. He was kicked off my property due to his vulgar mouth. He has been asked to stop recording my home and to meet in a public place. He insists on coming and harassing me and my family. He tells my grandson once he gets in the car that he is going to kill me and my grandson's mom. He comes and starts his recording long before my grandson is there. I am not sure what to do. The police tell me that is not stalking or harassment. I feel he will attempt to make good on his threat, just to "get even" with my daughter. (The two were never married). The dad is narcissistic!
- anon45943
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To the poor girl who was stalked by another girl: restraining orders are free and pretty easy to get. You just need to go to your court house in your county and go to the "self Help Center." They tell you exactly what to do and help you with your paperwork. good luck
- anon45312
8
My brother has been served a TRO, we know my sister in law lied to the court in order to get this TRO. She was upset, because she thinks my brother cheated on her. My question is, does the court not require any type of proof that physical or emotional violence has occurred. What if we fear she is going to take the kids to Mexico?
- anon39319
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Oh let me make something clear..since I cannot go back and edit my post... when I had left her a voicemail telling her to leave me alone, I did that a year or so ago when she was being creepy, threatening to kill herself etc. At least a year or maybe even *two* years ago. This whole time I thought I finally had gotten her off of my back until...she found out where I am and started calling me at work a few days ago...she had told me she has come to my job but I wasn't there etc....even after I have made it clear to her that I do not like her and that I never want her near me.If I could explain the entire situation you would understand that this is a complete nightmare for me.
- stressed
6
I have a stalker..and I am so stressed out.It is another female whom I had once became friends with and then she had made my life feel like I was living in a complete nightmare.The situation I found myself in is very similar to the movie "single white female". It's been at least 4 years since I have had contact with her..I had to move out of my apartment, lose contact with all of my friends she had become close to...I basically have had to start a new life...new job/work. I don't really hang out with people other than my boyfriend and family or the new friends I have made at my current job,I just don't really have much of a social life because I am so stressed about her trying to make a way back into my life that I have now.Ahhhh,it's so crazy.She has been told repeatedly to stay away by my family,my old nieghbors,etc.I had even told her myself.A few years later...she has found out where I work and has shown up...called,etc.She has in the past,gone into my apartment...has taken my panties, bras, clothes, etc...would put on my make-up...then later I started finding pictures of her dressed in my things sleeping with my ex...many different occasions from what I could see.She is very obsessed with me.She was obsessed with all of my past modeling photos that she had seen at a mutual friend's house before we had actually met.Then she started showing up at my apartment leaving me notes saying she wanted to hang out,etc.Then showed up while I was home and I didn't think much of it, she seemed nice...said she was being treated poorly by her boyfriend at the time and had no where to go and I just ended up feeling sorry for her and sort of took her under my wing.The entire situation had just become very wierd and extremely creepy.I can't get into it all at this moment, I am just at the point to where I just don't know what to do...or how to go about getting a restraining order for this type of situation. She has showed up to my old neighbor's house threatening to kill herself if she doesn't find out where I live...This was a year ago and I have had it...I left her a voicemail message telling her it's been years, I have moved on and started a new life and I don't want her or anyone from my past around me...and now she has been trying to communicate with me through my job....What do I do??? This girl is crazy. She was a stalker before and I know she is the same.
- anon37472
5
i'm 7 months pregnant and my boyfriend is involved with drugs.. i left him and he is calling my phone threatening me for no reason.. i see him around but when i talk to a guy friend he threatens to hurt them.. what should i do? i love him and he is the father of my baby.
- anon32027
4
a girl that i was involved with owed me money and wouldn't pay so i threatened her and she got a restraining order. she has contacted me and we have been talking and are active but she won't remove the restraining order cause she is afraid of her mom and she is 18. could the restraining order be removed for her talking to me? i've got text msgs of her saying her mom won't find out and proof that we have no problems with each other
- boss252
3
My husband made a restraining order on my brother and he put my 3 year daughter on too. Does he have the right to do that? He made up stories about my brother just because he doesn't want him to be in my house. Now my brother finds himself facing all these problems and he is a new immigrant and he doesn't even speak English. Please help. What should I do? Thank you.
- anon28291
2
i ran away from my verbally and physically abusive husband for almost 3 months now with our son. After i tried giving him a chance i analyzed the situation and realized his past behaviour towards me. Now, i finally made up my mind that i dont want to give him a third chance because he doesnt deserve it at all and i dont want to take chance again. Do i need to get a restraining order against him because he knows where we are right now?
- anon13243
1
do restraining orders affect your criminal record?
- anon745

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