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What Is a Custodial Parent?
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A custodial parent is the parent with whom a child resides with full time. Most custodial parents have been awarded physical custody of a child by a court of law. Generally, a custodial parent is also considered the primary care parent. He or she usually assumes the responsibility of providing all of the essential needs for the child. This may include providing shelter, clothing and food.

There are typically situations which lead to a person becoming a primary custodial parent. In most cases, the role is awarded following a legal separation or divorce. The parent chosen to be the custodial parent is usually the one who has shown that he or she can most adequately meet all of the needs of the child. In addition to feeding, clothing and providing a suitable residence, the parent may also need to show that he or she will provide a stable environment. This may mean that the parent will not be traveling often with or without the child, so that he or she can settle into one primary place of residence.

The opposite of a custodial parent is a noncustodial parent. This is the parent with whom the child does not reside with full time. Typically, there will be designated periods for the child to spend time with this parent. In a custody agreement, the time periods may be legally defined. Often, time with a noncustodial parent may be limited to the weekends, holidays and summer months, as this time may coexist with the child's school schedule.

In most cases, a noncustodial parent will have certain obligations to the custodial parent. Generally, receiving some type of financial assistance from the nonresidential parent is one of the major custodial parent rights. For this reason, noncustodial parents may have to pay child support to the primary parent to supplement the financial costs of taking care of the child. In addition, he or she may be held responsible for paying other child expenses as well. This may include paying for child care, health insurance, school uniforms, extracurricular activities and recreational activities.

Certain situations may call for adjustments to be made as in who the custodial parent is. For instance, if the parent with whom the child resides full time becomes ill and is no longer able to take care of the child, the noncustodial parent may have to assume the role as the primary care giver. If the primary care parent fails to continuously provide a stable environment for the child, the agreement may be changed as well. This may include the parent taking on a job requiring him or her to travel a lot or if he or she frequently changes residences. Additionally, if the child decides that he or she wishes to reside full time with the noncustodial parent, this may be another reason for the parental roles to change.

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bbpuff
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@BelugaWhale - You know I did not think that far ahead, but I know that once a child is a certain age (13 I believe where I live) they can decide who they want to live with. I am biding my time because I have only 2 more years until that happens. Other than that I would not want to think about my mother dying to be honest. If I were forced to deal with the situation I think I could reapply for custody or reinstatement of my rights, but I am not sure as I have not inquired on it.

BelugaWhale
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@bbpuff - That sounds like a difficult situation and I hope everything turns out okay. Once you sign your rights over to some one can you get your child back later on? What if a death of the custodial parent occurs, who will she go to?

bbpuff
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You should note that generally custodial parents and legal guardians are somewhat different... legally anyway. Legal guardians usually have the parents rights signed over to them. Once my ex had joint custody but a custodial parent (my mom) was in effect because neither of us could properly care of our daughter financially. We eventually signed over our rights to her because we knew it was best. Thankfully, she is on my side of the family and I get to see her all the time where as my ex (now in jail) doesn't really get to see her... or rather, chooses not to.

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