@amsden2000 - I'm not sure why, but a lot of men lack confidence. They slouch forward and are fidgety. I go to a lot of bars and there are so many people that don't pay attention to how they act. Most of them are dressed fantastically -- they just don't act it.
I always dress my best. I know what I like and what look good on me. A lot of men are afraid of seeming effeminate if they pay any attention to their clothes -- so they dress like slobs and expect to attract hot confident women.
It's no wonder why there are so many singles around.