i recently was the victim in a case. he decided to lie after assaulting me to get a TRO that somehow turned into a protection order. i am too young for him. i was arrested for committing no crime but texting accidentally.
he took a marker to each page of the order then drove to my house to serve it himself to me. i have been traumatized for five months and yes it will forever affect me. i am a teenager. no, i was not married and he did not show up to a single hearing to explain this lie. there was also no proof to put me through this. He got off with causing this action to the actual victim -- me in this case.
I, the victim, was accused of things i for real did not do. this man is eleven years older than me but he was not my boyfriend. we had an intimate relationship and he lied to me so i then texted something about it not being necessary to hurt my feelings where the assault took place.
i did not accept the play because i did not do anything. i have had a horrible experience for something so simple, based on texting that was not even a threat. It was a massive text to friends. it's a teenager thing. i cried for five months straight. i cried for the entire time. i was arrested for overnight and two days was more than enough to break my heart for good and make me so scared for doing literally nothing. I could not even be able to hold a fork to eat, I was trembling so bad.
i felt like a target for five months. i was admitted and tested. i am completely by this point destroyed. i was tested negative and clean. the state has nothing on me. let me remind you that this whole five months i was the victim in this case.
turns out the guy that lied to get me to sleep with him was a real criminal and no one stopped this. i am scared for life and i keep thinking how hard life was before this happened to me. i do have add/adhd/dyslexia. Now i have no more in me to get up and take on life. Every ounce of strength i had went into comforting myself through this tragedy.
yes I'm pretty and very cool. i have more guy friends and girls are usually very jealous of me but it can happen to anyone. i was stupid enough to believe everything that he said to me.
i wanted to be an interior designer i dropped out of school because i just couldn't sit in class and think of what is happening to me. i have never felt so helpless in my life. i can't move on and there is nothing i can do about it because the damage was already done to me, the TRO costing nothing.
my parents had to pay about a thousand dollars for a lawyer for this I.C.E case/ i had no idea what this was. all i know is that my heart was broken without my permission. it felt like i was screaming for help and no one would help me. this has ruined me. i can't believe the law let this happen. unbelievable.