@indigomoth - Sometimes you don't feel like any kind of sex though. It can be especially hard if you are putting pressure on yourself and the article is right, this can lead to people feeling pretty awful about themselves. Especially if they end up with pain after intercourse, on top of everything else.
I think in some cases people just have to accept that when you've had a baby, you just won't be able to get it, or want it as regularly as you used to. After everything settles down, probably after a year or so, when baby is sleeping through the night, then you can get back to it. Before then, don't worry too much about it!
And especially don't make your partner feel bad.