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What are Parent and Tot Programs?

Sheri Cyprus
Sheri Cyprus

Parent and tot programs are recreation programs for toddlers and their parents. Most towns or cities have these programs available in their community or recreation centers, and they are sometimes called "mommy and me." These community sessions offer young children the opportunity to interact with children the same age that live in their area.

In a parent and tot program, toddlers can develop social skills among their peers while their mothers or fathers are still nearby. Many people feel that participation in such programs can better prepare children for the social aspects of school. Although most are held in a recreation or community center, activities like story times are often held in public libraries.

Children might play while parents chat during parent and tot programs.
Children might play while parents chat during parent and tot programs.

Some parent and tot programs have a wide range of activities that include crafts and physical education (PE). Most have both structured activities led by a program instructor and a time for free play. During free play, the children may use the playground equipment outdoors at the recreation or community center while the parents chat together and supervise their children.

In order to develop their social skills, allow toddlers to play with both parents and playmates.
In order to develop their social skills, allow toddlers to play with both parents and playmates.

These programs are often held during weekdays when older children are in school. They are usually carefully timed so that the parents can drop off and pick up other children from school. The length of each session varies, but since the children are usually quite young, most parent and tot programs don't last more than an hour or two.

Many parents enjoy being able to meet other parents in their community and it gives them some social interaction. Sometimes, participants form friendships outside the class, while in other cases, neighbors may bring their kids there together. Some programs include field trips to museums and sports events. The activities and number of participants vary widely among programs.

Discussion Comments

Krunchyman

@Euroxati - I agree with you. One thing we need to learn about life is that there are always going to be conflicts. No matter what age you are, and regardless of how friendly your demeanor is, people won't always get along with you. However, it's how we respond in those moments that makes the difference. Overall, communication is key.

Euroxati

This might be a bit of a stretch, but I've always always considered preschool, kindergarten and first grade to have some strong similarities to parent and tot programs. The parents might not be there, but so what? Not only are the grades more introductory than the higher levels, but you can develop social skills in those classes too. In kindergarten, things might start off quite simple, but as time goes on, such as in first grade, conflicts might arise. Though many people don't like confrontations, they can be considered healthy in the sense that you learn how to work things out with other people, and see their side of the story.

Chmander

The best thing about parent and tot programs is that they help you to develop social skills, which we all need one way or another. In fact, let's look at it this way. You're still growing up in the world, and learning to adapt. By developing good communication skills and speaking with other people who are at a similar age, slowly but surely, you're establishing the tools that are needed for your life, past present and future.

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    • Children might play while parents chat during parent and tot programs.
      By: Digitoll
      Children might play while parents chat during parent and tot programs.
    • In order to develop their social skills, allow toddlers to play with both parents and playmates.
      By: Scott Griessel
      In order to develop their social skills, allow toddlers to play with both parents and playmates.