Chopsticks are eating utensils used widely in Asia, particularly China, Korea, Japan, and Thailand. They take the form of two sticks which can be made from bone, metal, wood, jade, or ivory, depending on the owner and intended use. Chopsticks are used by billions of people, and probably originated during the Shang Dynasty in China, between 1766-1122 years before the common era. Using chopsticks properly does require some practice, and each culture which uses chopsticks has its own traditions and superstitions surrounding the eating utensils. These should be followed when in the culture to avoid a faux pas.

There are many different types of chopsticks, depending on the nation that they are made in and what they are being used for. As a general rule, all countries which use chopsticks make eating chopsticks in a variety of sizes for various hands, along with communal serving chopsticks and extra large cooking chopsticks. Eating chopsticks can be quite ornamental, and are usually personalized to the owner, while communal and cooking chopsticks are more plain. Blunt chopsticks are widespread in most Asian countries, although Japanese eating chopsticks are pointed at the business ends.

The English name for chopsticks comes from the pidgin word, “chop,” which means “quick.” It is derived from the Chinese word for “quick ones”, kuai-tzu. The sticks are typically held between the thumb and forefinger of the right hand, and a complex series of rules governs their use. As a general rule, eaters should never toy with their chopsticks, use chopsticks to move plates or bowls, or eat from communal dishes with personal chopsticks. In addition, it is considered rude to beat a plate for attention using chopsticks, and it is bad luck to cross chopsticks, a Chinese symbol for death.

Many of the taboos related to chopstick usage are also tied in with death and funeral rituals. For example, diners should never pass foods directly to each other on chopsticks, because this is how cremated bones are handled after a Buddhist funeral. In Japan, chopsticks should never be stuck into a bowl of food facing up to the sky, as this resembles the funeral incense offering. Other taboos, such as not using communal chopsticks to eat with, relate to common sense infection control.

Each nation also has restrictions related to general table manners. In China, for example, it is conventional to pick up a rice bowl and use chopsticks to shovel rice into the mouth. In Korea, this is considered very poor manners, and will be frowned upon. As a general rule when eating as a guest in a different nation, follow the lead set by your hosts, and apologize immediately if you cause inadvertent offense.