@turkay1-- Ouch! Why are you pulling it out?
The most you can do at home to treat ingrown toenails is cut as much of it as possible without causing bleeding. And you should only do this after soaking your feet in hot water for about twenty minutes. Otherwise, you're going to make it worse and it will get infected.
I used to get ingrown nails all the time before. I was talking to my doctor about it one time and she told me to cut my nails straight, instead of in a round-shape. When the nail is cut in a round shape and very close to the skin, it's very likely for the nail to grow into the skin.
I followed her recommendation and surprisingly it worked. I cut my nails straight across and I have had an ingrown toenail for a year now.