It is important to follow a few basic steps when you prepare for a bikini wax. First, of course, you should not get a bikini wax if you are diabetic, suffer from psoriasis or other skin conditions, or if you take Retinol or Accutane. If you are unsure, ask you physician whether you can go ahead with a wax.
When people prepare for a bikini wax, particularly if it is their first time, one big consideration is pain. Aestheticians usually recommend that you not get a wax when you are menstruating or pregnant, as sensitivity to the pubic area is usually increased at this time. Additionally, you may want to take ibuprofen or aspirin an hour before the wax to cut down on pain. Waxing does hurt, but how the wax is performed can make it hurt less. Choose a person with a lot of experience, and if possible get recommendations from friends. Someone new to waxing will probably not be as efficient; so don’t have your waxing done at a beauty college.
To prepare for a bikini wax, you also need to be sure your pubic hair is of the right length. If it is too long, the aesthetician will probably have you trim it, or if it is too short, it may be hard or impossible to remove. Aestheticians recommend shaving the bikini area about three weeks prior to getting the wax, and if you plan a Brazilian wax, you will need to trim the hair to about ¼ to ½ inch (.63 to 1.52cm) if you haven’t shaved it three weeks before the wax.
Another important step to prepare for a bikini wax is to avoid swimming or sunning oneself for a full 24 hours prior to the wax. After the waxing, you will want to consider the same for a couple of days. The skin can have some redness or bumping, which can be helped by ice. There is also the occasional ingrown hair, which can be iced, and then have anti-bacterial cream applied to ward off infection. Aestheticians recommend gently exfoliating the pubic area before the wax, and then doing so regularly after the wax to cut down on ingrown hairs.
Some men also like to have their bikini area waxed, particularly if they wear bikini style swim bottoms. For men who need to prepare for a bikini wax, the above considerations apply. It is also important to check with the salon where you plan to have the wax, as some salons only accept female clients.
Another consideration when one wants to prepare for a bikini wax is what type of underwear, if any, should be worn. Usually wearing underwear is up to the person getting the wax. If you feel uncomfortable removing your underwear, choose a skimpy pair, preferably a thong, and the aesthetician will work around the undies, and ask you to hold them when he or she needs to wax a covered area.
Many recommend wearing old underwear, to prepare for a bikini wax, or those that can be easily washed, as occasionally residue wax will get on the underwear. Also an important tip is wearing pants or a skirt that can easily be washed, instead of dry-cleaned, so that if any wax gets on your outer clothes, you are not out the cost of dry-cleaning them.
Lastly, to prepare for a bikini wax, if you are planning a Brazilian, you may want to schedule at least 30 minutes, and occasionally more. The salon will usually tell you how long the waxing process takes, and the lesser the time, the better. However, some women feel that when the waxing is done in small patches, though the process takes longer, it is usually more effective and less painful. So this is an individual decision, and can be based on your level of comfort with the process.
i'm 16 and i'm thinking about getting a bikini wax. i've been with my boyfriend for one year and two months and he says he doesnt mind how it looks but i never know. So i'm considering one and i have noticed that when i see salons they only say bikini waxes. does this mean they do brazilian too?
i've only gotten my face and legs done.
- anon48327
28
hi everyone i'm going to school for waxing. you need to know that yes, you're going to experience some discomfort and you get to decide how much hair you want or tolerate to be removed. remember you're the one getting it done. you can also expect to get wax on your undies. this is normal. just relax and do it. you will love the results. plus, go somewhere you feel comfortable. we only charge $8 to get just the bikini. The brazilian is $10. good luck with your waxing.
- anon46562
27
I'm a "big" girl in high school and i have a lot of hair down there. i was wondering if "big" girls get waxing too. to me it seems like only skinny women get waxed.
- anon44082
26
Hi I'm 15 year old girl. I have about 2-3 cm long hair around my anus and my pubic hair grows awfully fast. I've therefore considered a bikini wax (since I think it looks nice), but waxing is way to expensive for me and none of my friends are using it. Every time I shave I get these bumps, which bleed and it doesn't look very nice, so do you have any good shaving advice or a good "do it at home"-waxing brand? And if so how do you use it? I'm swimming quite a lot therefore I have to shave often and I'm so embarrassed in the dressing room because of these wounds downstairs.
- anon41189
25
I'm booked to have a bikini wax in a few days' time and I was wondering when you have a bikini wax, do they wax underneath/between the legs?
- anon39603
24
i just got my first bikini wax yesterday. i went to a nail salon to do so and it hurt a lot but not enough to cry, but almost to that point. it hurt mostly because she had to repeat over the same spot multiple times. bikini waxes are not bad. but next time i am going to a professional to get one done. i am going to go to a day spa where they know what they are doing and i am getting a brazilian to remove everything, since at nail salons they say the skin on your labia is sensitive. but it does look nice when it is done!
- anon38596
23
i'm now 17 and ive been having a hollywood wax (everything off down there) since i was 15. i have had great results and it barely hurts anymore. i would strongly advise you to wax because shaving just cuts hair and therefore they come back quicker and thicker! at first yes it hurts but after just apply sensitive lotions and the redness should go down. i now do my own waxing and i'd never use a razor again.
- anon38024
22
im way too embarrassed to get a wax done professionally. im 14. do you think i should get it done??? some of my friends use the do it yourself one.. anyone tried??? which is less painful????
- anon38014
21
I've never had a Bikini wax done before and was wondering if it would be a good idea to let the hair grow for 3 weeks before getting waxed as it says in the article, cause my hair grows fast, if i shave today by tomorrow i will have stubble. I'm just worried it might be too long and more painful.
- anon36299
20
I just had my first Brazilian bikini wax, and it hurt. My palms sweated alot, cuz of the pain. The good thing is that she was fast and the lady I went to has like 45 yrs exp of doing it, so It was done in like less than 10 minutes, prob like 6 or 7 min tops.
I got it done around 8am today and its 11 pm now, and i'm still swollen, a little bumpy and red, but it's not too bad. I expect it to go away within another day or so.
- anon33846
19
You can schedule a regular bikini wax, and talk to your waxer about exactly what you want taken off. For instance, I didn't want her to do the insides of the labia, or perianal area, so I just asked her to take of "everything on the top" and the bikini area between the legs beside the labia/outer labia. Just because one service is categorized as a specific region, doesn't mean you can't ask for a variation!
And for those of you under 18, my waxer will *not* wax under 18 without parental consent and a parent present. So consider that!
- anon32748
18
TO anon2261 : at the salon I go to I get the anus area done and don't worry it's normal to be hairy there. They will do these areas if you ask. In fact, my salon technician asked me if I wanted my bum done! which i do!
TO anon466: I guess mine takes about a full day to be completely normal (no redness) but this will probably depend on the person.
- anon32219
17
hi. I'm 11 years old and I have *a lot* of hair down there. I want a bikini wax, but i'm sort of scared. I wanted to know how old you have to be to get a wax? I want it waxed as soon as possible!
- anon28720
16
had my first bikini wax about 4 days ago and it wasn't so bad. i expected waaay worse it actually barely hurt so i am considering getting a brazilian. i had a little bit of bumpiness and a few pores that bled a tiny bit but after 2 days it was all totally fine. i can not believe that i put up with shaving for so long!
- anon24389
15
I Have Never had a wax anywhere accept on my face. i want to have it all off down there (so that includes anus and "snail trail") because i have a lot. i know Brazilian leaves a little bit. what kind of waxing gets rid of it all? and how painful?
- anon24118
14
ok, so im 16 and i have never had a professional wax down there. i have tried shaving (irritates the skin too much), using the hair removal chems like veet and nair (dont work any better than shaving) and i have attempted waxing with the nair strips which im sure i did wrong because some hair was left and a lot of the skin came off with the wax. the situation has gotten bad and now i have unwanted hair on the inside on my thighs, up towards my belly and in the further toward anal area.
now, last year i tried plucking some and with ice it really wasnt horribly bad and didnt get irritated. i was wondering if a bikini wax hurts more or less than what ive tried so far. what is an appropriate price for the procedure? i am most definitely NOT getting a Brazilian.
- anon24006
13
I love the brazilian wax! I have a horrible time shaving. I always get red bumps, bleed and get ingrown hairs. I have tried buying ointments, shaving in different directions and nothing works. The firs time is soooo painful, but after a few times it doesn't hurt at all! And if you keep it up the less frequent you have to go!
- anon21780
12
I have just had my first "Brazilian", and it was one of the most excruciating experiences of my life. And, I've had two babies by c-section, so that says alot.
However, I stupidly decided to do it at a resort which, while beautiful, is nevertheless in Egypt, where sanitary procedures and practices as well as proper waxing technique are completely foreign. The treatment room was cold and impersonal, it seemed to be dirty in places, and the woman who did my wax did a terrible job even though she claimed to be a doctor. No gloves, no hand washing, no sterile applicators, no anti-bacterial cream. In fact, she smeared God-knows-how-old baby oil all over the area. She did not hold the skin taught and I ended up with bruising, swelling, redness, bleeding, and extensive irritation. Now, three days later, the skin that was traumatized during the procedure is peeling off. This following many tiny pimple-like pustules that I had to clear of puss.
However, I have had multiple other wax procedures done (all in the U.S.) which have been flawless and quite frankly relatively painless. If considering the Brazilian, make very sure that the facility and the technician know what they are doing and you should be fine.
- anon19603
11
I have seen that some males have posted here that they don't mind how women look down there, but I'm still not sure. I have never had a bikini wax or a brazilian, and I'm wondering if guys prefer brazilians or what...Any responses from anyone would be appreciated :)
- sandradee
10
I have horrible trouble with shaving my pubic hair. Ive considered getting a brazilian bc my fiance prefers fully shaved but im afraid that will become too expensive. I have trouble with itching and irritation and i bleed horribly with nicks and even through the pores when i shave. I have also had ingrown hairs. Is there a technique with shaving that will prevent this or a good shaving cream i can use while and after?
- laurasaur25
9
Laser hair removal is *not* the way to go for the removal of pubic hair. They love to tell you it's painless, but it's a hot flash that burns the hair and it's quite painful. I had my entire face and chin treated with a laser - it took 8 sessions of burning hair and skin. The neck is sensitive, but I couldn't even imagine that type of pain between my legs.
As for the girl who wants to be bare - you can easily keep yourself smooth by shaving. Just don't shave against the grain. You can also use topical creams that slow/stop hair growth. Always use a fresh and sharp razor. If you carefully shave every day and use topical creams that slow/stop hair growth, you should be fine.
- anon12341
8
what is most common? brazilian waxed or bikini waxed (im also a first timer) i'm scared to go get bikini waxed i'm actually considering laser hair removal for that part. what go u think ? bikini or brazilian?
- anon7218
6
Don't worry about getting into bed with someone with lots of pubic hair. I'm of Irish/English descent and have lots of hair everywhere. I trim the front down but not the the back - that skin is way too sensitive for me to mess with. I don't look like a porn star, but I've never had a complaint. Plus if you wax and then sleep with someone for the first time you will be compelled to keep it up - and that's very expensive and time consuming. Be yourself and have a great time!!! It's a wonderful feeling to know someone likes your body just the way it is.
- anon3124
5
Body hair is the most normal thing. If you have a lot it will just take a bit more effort to remove.
Honestly I don't think most women care about physical appearance once you've got that far (in bed). I have terrible and extensive scarring across large parts of body but to my surprise in life the women I have been with didn't seem to mind. The most important thing is that you feel comfortable with yourself. If you are relaxed, then so will (s)he be. If it's really killing you, hire a call girl (they seem not to be bothered about these things).
- anon3012
4
As much as we hate to admit it, most women have hair in the places you've mentioned. The truth is, a standard bikini wax isn't usually extensive enough to do more than simple clean up work along bikini lines. If you would like more than that taken off, a Brazillian wax is far more extensive.
As for the getting in bed with someone, don't forget what physical intimacy is all about--getting closer to someone. Mutual trust and communication are far more important than body hair growth, in my opinion.
- Dayton
3
I have never had a bikini wax before. and one of my problems is that i have pubic hair almost everywhere between my legs-around my anus,in between my anus...is that normal? and if i have to get a bikini wax, do i have to wax these areas too. please let me know about these things before i chose to get in bed with someone. I'm so scared. Thanks!!