How can I Prepare for a Bikini Wax?

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It is important to follow a few basic steps when you prepare for a bikini wax. First, of course, you should not get a bikini wax if you are diabetic, suffer from psoriasis or other skin conditions, or if you take Retinol or Accutane. If you are unsure, ask you physician whether you can go ahead with a wax.

When people prepare for a bikini wax, particularly if it is their first time, one big consideration is pain. Aestheticians usually recommend that you not get a wax when you are menstruating or pregnant, as sensitivity to the pubic area is usually increased at this time. Additionally, you may want to take ibuprofen or aspirin an hour before the wax to cut down on pain. Waxing does hurt, but how the wax is performed can make it hurt less. Choose a person with a lot of experience, and if possible get recommendations from friends. Someone new to waxing will probably not be as efficient; so don’t have your waxing done at a beauty college.

To prepare for a bikini wax, you also need to be sure your pubic hair is of the right length. If it is too long, the aesthetician will probably have you trim it, or if it is too short, it may be hard or impossible to remove. Aestheticians recommend shaving the bikini area about three weeks prior to getting the wax, and if you plan a Brazilian wax, you will need to trim the hair to about ¼ to ½ inch (.63 to 1.52cm) if you haven’t shaved it three weeks before the wax.

Another important step to prepare for a bikini wax is to avoid swimming or sunning oneself for a full 24 hours prior to the wax. After the waxing, you will want to consider the same for a couple of days. The skin can have some redness or bumping, which can be helped by ice. There is also the occasional ingrown hair, which can be iced, and then have anti-bacterial cream applied to ward off infection. Aestheticians recommend gently exfoliating the pubic area before the wax, and then doing so regularly after the wax to cut down on ingrown hairs.

Some men also like to have their bikini area waxed, particularly if they wear bikini style swim bottoms. For men who need to prepare for a bikini wax, the above considerations apply. It is also important to check with the salon where you plan to have the wax, as some salons only accept female clients.

Another consideration when one wants to prepare for a bikini wax is what type of underwear, if any, should be worn. Usually wearing underwear is up to the person getting the wax. If you feel uncomfortable removing your underwear, choose a skimpy pair, preferably a thong, and the aesthetician will work around the undies, and ask you to hold them when he or she needs to wax a covered area.

Many recommend wearing old underwear, to prepare for a bikini wax, or those that can be easily washed, as occasionally residue wax will get on the underwear. Also an important tip is wearing pants or a skirt that can easily be washed, instead of dry-cleaned, so that if any wax gets on your outer clothes, you are not out the cost of dry-cleaning them.

Lastly, to prepare for a bikini wax, if you are planning a Brazilian, you may want to schedule at least 30 minutes, and occasionally more. The salon will usually tell you how long the waxing process takes, and the lesser the time, the better. However, some women feel that when the waxing is done in small patches, though the process takes longer, it is usually more effective and less painful. So this is an individual decision, and can be based on your level of comfort with the process.

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Posted by: anon466
how long does a full bikini wax take to heal?
Posted by: anon2261
I have never had a bikini wax before. and one of my problems is that i have pubic hair almost everywhere between my legs-around my anus,in between my anus...is that normal? and if i have to get a bikini wax, do i have to wax these areas too. please let me know about these things before i chose to get in bed with someone. I'm so scared. Thanks!!
Posted by: Dayton
As much as we hate to admit it, most women have hair in the places you've mentioned. The truth is, a standard bikini wax isn't usually extensive enough to do more than simple clean up work along bikini lines. If you would like more than that taken off, a Brazillian wax is far more extensive.

As for the getting in bed with someone, don't forget what physical intimacy is all about--getting closer to someone. Mutual trust and communication are far more important than body hair growth, in my opinion.

Posted by: anon3012
Body hair is the most normal thing. If you have a lot it will just take a bit more effort to remove.

Honestly I don't think most women care about physical appearance once you've got that far (in bed). I have terrible and extensive scarring across large parts of body but to my surprise in life the women I have been with didn't seem to mind. The most important thing is that you feel comfortable with yourself. If you are relaxed, then so will (s)he be. If it's really killing you, hire a call girl (they seem not to be bothered about these things).

Posted by: anon3124
Don't worry about getting into bed with someone with lots of pubic hair. I'm of Irish/English descent and have lots of hair everywhere. I trim the front down but not the the back - that skin is way too sensitive for me to mess with. I don't look like a porn star, but I've never had a complaint. Plus if you wax and then sleep with someone for the first time you will be compelled to keep it up - and that's very expensive and time consuming. Be yourself and have a great time!!! It's a wonderful feeling to know someone likes your body just the way it is.
Posted by: anon7218
what is most common? brazilian waxed or bikini waxed (im also a first timer) i'm scared to go get bikini waxed i'm actually considering laser hair removal for that part. what go u think ? bikini or brazilian?
Posted by: anon12341
Laser hair removal is *not* the way to go for the removal of pubic hair. They love to tell you it's painless, but it's a hot flash that burns the hair and it's quite painful. I had my entire face and chin treated with a laser - it took 8 sessions of burning hair and skin. The neck is sensitive, but I couldn't even imagine that type of pain between my legs.

As for the girl who wants to be bare - you can easily keep yourself smooth by shaving. Just don't shave against the grain. You can also use topical creams that slow/stop hair growth. Always use a fresh and sharp razor. If you carefully shave every day and use topical creams that slow/stop hair growth, you should be fine.


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