I need help identifying a critter. It's about 4 inches long, with a long tubular body that is cinnamon colored and it has beautiful translucent beige wings and black legs that scratched me good! It does not match pictures of a Palmetto bug or flying cockroach. I am stumped. I live in the foothills of the Blue Ridge Mountains in North Carolina.
In my 74 years, I have never seen such a critter (especially not in my bed!),
but am seeing insects in my garden I also have never seen and cannot
identify this year. Any suggestions?